The Life Cycle of a Female Blogger

Bloggers who blog about day-to-day life start out excited. They write cute posts, elaborate on how wonderful their husbands are, and complain about their lives (in a way that is really bragging). Then, they get punchy. They share their opinions on the world. Next, they realize that opinions are one-dimensional because it’s hard to have a conversation on a computer screen, so they add fluffy posts. Look at my dog! I like chocolate! Over time, they figure out their blogger voice. Then they have children. They stop posting save the additional picture of their baby. Partially because they are busy, but mostly because their life has changed tremendously and they cannot figure out how to put that into words. So it goes – their blog remains forever on a date long past with a picture of a baby who is now in school and could type a blog of their own. On friends’ blogger blog rolls their once-active page is listed at the bottom as “updated 1 years ago.”

I don’t know what 2012 will bring. Will Hil Street continue beyond 2011? Remains to be seen. Seems to me I am following this blog life cycle and going down the path of the blog frozen in time. In the list of blog-cycle activities I have listed, leaving it is next. What I do know is that writing this open diary has been a blessing. It was cathartic for me through lots of life changes – death, birth, illness, career, seminary. And I know it made you laugh – even out loud, I’ve been told. Who knows what is next?

Blessings to you in 2012!

  1. #1 by roadwarriorette on January 3, 2012 - 3:26 pm

    I know plenty of people who have kept up with their blogs after the kids come. I love reading Hil Street and hope it continues 🙂 But it’s only worth it if it works for you!!

  2. #2 by Stephanie on January 4, 2012 - 10:08 pm

    Aww, I know it’s hard to prioritize it with everything else that’s going on. I hope you keep it up, though! It is possible, though sometimes difficult, to find a good balance between blogging and living.

  3. #3 by Another HM on January 19, 2012 - 11:38 pm

    Friendship is off if this thing doesn’t keep going.

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